Giving a blow job made easy

how to give a blow job

Most women are petrified of giving oral sex to their partners. We give you 5 simple tricks to make the experience enjoyable for you both.

If you’ve been in a relationship for a while and you’ve also had sex, it may be time to explore oral sex. You might love it when he goes down on you, but have you ever driven him wild with a really great blow job?

You might be hampered a little if you don’t know how to give a blow job. But that’s what we’re here for: to give you 5 simple tips on how to give a blow job:

1 It’s okay to suggest a shower first. You might be turned off by the idea of oral sex because you feel that he doesn’t smell or taste great down there. Another problem is that the crotch area can get really sweaty and add to your discomfort. But you are not out of bounds to suggest that you take a shower together first. In fact, you will both enjoy sex more after a bath.

2 Get real – your mouth cannot accommodate him. Forget what the movies tell you. The average penis is about 5 to 6 inches long – but your mouth isn’t. It’s not possible for you to take him completely in your mouth, and you will end up retching and gagging if his penis enters your throat. So use your mouth on the tip of his penis, and your hands on the shaft and base. Now work in tandem and get him to explode with frenzy.

3 Lying down on the bed to do it is comfortable for both. Another thing that the movies show is the woman kneeling on the floor to give oral to the man as he stands over her. We don’t know about you, but there’s something mildly offensive about this stance. Also, it’s not comfortable for either of you – your knees will hurt, and his legs will start quivering when he begins to get excited. Just take the civilized way out – lie him down on the bed and then go down on him.

4 Get some lube on and get to it. Receiving and giving oral is great, but it tends to get uncomfortable. You cannot constantly generate enough saliva, and he will not enjoy the experience if your mouth is dry. Both of you will love oral sex more if you use lube. Flavoured lube is great for oral sex, and it is safe to ingest as well. Or if you’re inclined for it, ask him to wear a flavoured condom before you suck him. Once he’s really hard, you can straddle him and have mind-blowing sex.

5 Rub the tip against the roof of your mouth – here’s why. One secret that most women don’t know, is that the penis cannot distinguish between different textures of your mouth. It won’t know if it’s rubbing against the inside of your cheek, or your tongue, or your throat. In fact, deep throating is rarely pleasurable because the penis tip needs to constantly bump or rub against a surface instead of trying to find its way into space. Do yourselves a favour and let his penis tip rub against the roof of your mouth – he will love the sensation and you won’t gag at all!